Family mediation and MIAMs in Leicester

Family mediation is a way for separating couples to reach agreement about children, money and property with the help of a trained, neutral mediator, rather than having a judge decide.

The MIAM

Before applying to court about children or finances, you’ll usually have to attend a MIAM with an accredited mediator. The mediator explains mediation and other options, and assesses whether mediation is suitable. Exemptions include domestic abuse, urgency and some child protection concerns. Your partner can attend separately.

How mediation works

Sessions are usually an hour or two, with both of you together or in separate rooms (sometimes online). The mediator helps you exchange financial information, discuss options and reach proposals. They don’t take sides and can’t give either of you legal advice. Most mediations take between two and five sessions.

Mediation and solicitors

Mediation and legal advice work best together. A solicitor can advise you before and between sessions on what a fair outcome looks like and whether a proposal is sensible, and can draft the consent order at the end. Having advice alongside mediation makes agreements more likely to stick.

Cost

Mediation is usually much cheaper than going to court. Legal aid is available for mediation if you qualify, and the government has run a voucher scheme contributing towards mediation in cases involving children, so ask the mediator what funding is currently available. Mediators in Leicester can be found through the Family Mediation Council’s register.

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